BDSM (which stands for bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism) is a type of physical and psychological play. When done correctly in a safe and consensual manner, BDSM can be an intensely pleasurable and intimate experience for both partners. That said, it can also come with risks. It’s important for BDSM lovers to understand the safety measures and etiquette before engaging in it.
One of the most common forms of BDSM is bondage. Bondage involves using restraints on one partner in order to stimulate the other partner’s erogenous zones. To ensure safety and satisfaction, it’s important to have a trustful and communicative relationship beforehand, with both partners being aware of and respecting each other’s wishes and boundaries. With that in mind, let’s take a look at the best BDSM sex positions involving bondage.
The Basics of Bondage
As with all BDSM activities, it’s important to know the basics of bondage before engaging in it. Bondage involves restraining one partner with a rope, handcuffs, scarves, or other material. It’s important to only use materials that are made specifically for bondage, as these are designed to be safe and secure. Always remember to use your safe word and to maintain communication throughout the experience—it’s the key to a fun, safe, and pleasurable BDSM experience.
Kneeling Position
The kneeling position is a great position for the submissive partner to experience a sense of vulnerability. The dominant partner can sit in a chair and then binds their wrist and ankles with rope. The submissive partner should then kneel in front of them facing away from them, allowing their arms to be further bound by the dominant partner. This is a great position for the dominant partner to spice things up by adding wax, nipple clamps, or other sensation play tools.
Waiting Position
The waiting position is one of the most popular bondage sex positions. The submissive partner kneels on the floor with their hands tied behind their back while the dominant partner stands in front of them. This position allows the dominant partner to dictate the pace and activities of the scene, leaving the submissive partner powerless to resist. This position can also be spiced up by adding gags and blindfolds.
Spread Eagle Position
The spread-eagle position is both visually and psychologically arousing for both partners. The submissive partner lies on the ground with arms and legs tied to two different points, spread out like an eagle in flight. The dominant partner then stands in front of them, in a position of power, and can add more stimulation to the scene with blindfolds, feathers, and through spanking.
Standing Position
The standing position is great for those who want to experience a higher level of sensation play. The dominant partner stands behind the submissive partner and binds their wrists together, before leaning them against a wall or other solid surface. This allows the dominant partner to freely explore different sensation play activities such as feathers or wax.
Riding Position
The riding position is a great way to increase the intensity of the experience. The dominant partner has the submissive partner straddle them while seated in a chair. The submissive partner is then bound to the chair with rope, allowing the dominant partner to explore different BDSM activities.
Bondage sex positions are a great way to explore BDSM activities, as long as safety and communication are maintained. Keep in mind that both partners should express their desires and wishes beforehand and respect each other’s boundaries. Bondage activities can be extremely pleasurable and stimulate our senses in ways previously unknown, as long as they are done safely and consensually.